Kids Can be Nasty

Parents who can’t see beyond their rose colored glasses

I’m fed up with kids, more specifically little girls being mean to my son. It’s extremely frustrating to see my son cry when someone is mean to him. Then what’s even worse is when you confront the child’s parent and they say, “oh I saw them and they didn’t do that.”

I call bull on that. You weren’t anywhere in sight. You were over by the cars when your children were making nasty faces at my son. Yes this is a specific situation that I’m discussing, but I’ve had enough of it. These girls are rotten.

They’re always mean to my son. They get away with it too. And then to make things worse all they have to do is say, “I’m sorry.” That to me isn’t enough or teaching them anything.

My son has been nice to them and never taken things away from them. He invites them to play. He doesn’t ignore them. Oh and he always wants to do things with them; even after all the mean things they do to him.

I tell him that he doesn’t need to play with them if they’re mean, but he wants to. I feel like it’s my responsibility to help guide him with any kind of relationship whether it be friendship or relationship, and this isn’t healthy for him. These girls are teaching bad things, and a bad behavior.

These last two years have been full of tears and an emotional rollercoaster. The good thing for him is when he’s away from them, which is difficult when he wants to play outside too. He shouldn’t have to stay in because it’s his yard too.

I can’t take this anymore. Something has be done. My son will no longer be called a liar, and mistreated by your girls. You need to look at your “parenting” and teach those girls that they can’t treat others that way; because they have a rude awakening coming real soon.

Blog by Melissa Chandler